Saturday 4 August 2012

Enemies: its good to have atleast one :)


“Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.”
― Oscar Wilde


“I choose my friends for their good looks, my acquaintances for their good characters, and my enemies for their good intellects.”
― Oscar Wilde


“The Bible tells us to love our neighbors, and also to love our enemies; probably because generally they are the same people.”
― G.K. Chesterton


“It is easy enough to be friendly to one's friends. But to befriend the one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of true religion. The other is mere business.”
― Mahatma Gandhi

“Whenever you are confronted with an opponent. Conquer him with love.”
― Mahatma Gandhi

I ask you to judge me by the enemies I have made.”
― Franklin D. Roosevelt


“We do not merely destroy our enemies; we change them.”
― George Orwell

“He will never have true friends who is afraid of making enemies.”
― William Hazlitt,


“It is a good man who stands up for his friends, but an honorable man who stands up for his enemies.”
― Violet Haberdashe
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12 comments:

  1. now ma'am how can i have one smart enemy...
    do i have to slap someone for that...?

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    1. That depends on how you define your enemy. enemy is not only person but your ego, negative attitude,anger...also your worst and smart enemy.worst because it spoil your future and smart because its inside you and you never come to know who your real enemies are. You search for external source which mainly depends on circumstances. you can win over your enemy and become friends but its tough task to concur smart inside enemies. :)

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  2. ys ma'am...absolutely right... :)

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  3. ma'am if i say i am a good friend of my all inside senses, but that boy/girl is disturbing it and trying to make it my enemy than i am wrong...?

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    1. If you know yourself well then nobody can disturb you. Better you keep distance with those negative person or energy.

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  4. you are right ma'am but all are no the same so if i know myself well then its nonsense to keeping distance from those negative person or energy. but i should have the guts to get that and take that energy and person respectively positively.

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    1. yes, mahesh you have already given answer of your own question:now ma'am how can i have one smart enemy...
      do i have to slap someone for that...? when you look for only positive side of any situation and person, no one is your enemy. :)

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    2. Ma'am i know that..:)
      but now question arising here is that...
      all are taking me positively...?
      if i am taking everyone positively then all are my friends, but what about those who are taking me negatively...?

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  5. Ma'am if the question comes about positive and negative, friends and enemies.... then friends sometimes acts as enemies and the enemies knowingly or unknowingly does something good to us... then how to tackle wid such people... if we ignore our friends in some matter then they stat talkin abt our negative points... and till that time they praise us like anything.....

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    1. humm... that if your experience saying this then you are 100% correct dear...
      and you need to find the peoples who could be true friends of you...
      because friends do masti sometime but when you feel that they are crossing limit then they are not friends they are actual enemies so be careful and if possible then try to mingle with your friends so you wont feel that they are your enemies...
      take care...

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    2. thanks mahesh bhaiya.... 4 letting me knw hw to judge people....

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  6. enemies are the most important part in success of any person.....bcuz they let u know dat to which level u should increse to ur character or work so dat dey cant reach der...and if u can do so then u r on TOP.....

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